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UNDERSTANDING NORWEGIANS

Six Norwegian habits to embrace to make you feel like a local

Norway can be a tricky culture to crack at times when it comes to understanding some of the social norms. Here are some of our tips for fitting in and living like a local. 

Six Norwegian habits to embrace to make you feel like a local
These lifehacks will help you find your inner-Norwegian. Photo by Mikita Karasiou on Unsplash

In Norway, fitting in is a lot more than getting your residence card and picking up the lingo. 

Here are some so-called life hacks to help you fit in. 

Embrace Norwegian eating habits

Norway isn’t best known for its exciting and sophisticated cuisine (frozen pizza is considered a staple of the diet in Norway, for example), but that doesn’t mean you should turn your nose up at it. 

The worst crime Norwegian food can be accused of is maybe being a bit plain; even lutefisk doesn’t have a distinctly strong flavour. Instead, it’s the texture that puts many off trying it again. 

We aren’t saying you need to eat Smalahove (whole roasted lamb head) everyday either, but there are plenty of habits that you should get into. If you’re looking to test your palate, maybe look at our pick of Norwegian foods that aren’t as bad as they sound

In the meantime, why not give a few Norwegian traditions a go. TacoFredag (taco Friday) is perhaps one of the easiest and tastiest habits to get into. 

But remember, there is one golden rule that mustn’t be ignored when putting together a taco Friday: Don’t use hard taco shells. Yes, we know it’s called taco Friday, and for many, this means taco shells, but for it to be a properly Norwegian experience, you’ll need tortillas. 

It might sound counterintuitive but inviting some friends over for Mexican food might help you feel a bit more Norwegian. Photo by Jeswin Thomas on Unsplash

If you aren’t feeling the idea of Mexican food to make you feel like a proper Norwegian, then we’d recommend brunch instead. 

A Norwegian brunch will consist of hard-boiled eggs, cheeses, cured meats, and fish served on open sandwiches. These toppings can all be called pålegg (spread). If you want to get a vigorous debate going, ask your guests what the best pålegg is. 

READ ALSO: Norwegian word of the day – Pålegg

Give winter sports a try (even if it’s just once) 

Norwegians don’t make a lot of small talk, but it might just be impossible for any foreign resident to go an entire winter without being asked what winter sports they are into. 

You don’t need to go all out and buy a mega cabin, or hytte, in Trysil, Geilo or Hemsedal and embrace the ski bum lifestyle (unless you want to). Still, you should give some form of skiing, such as cross country, alpine, backcountry, or even roller skiing in the summer a try. Snowboarding is also acceptable, but overall Norwegians prefer skiing. 

Your skiing skills may not live up to expectations, but you should give it a go. Photo by Vidar Nordli-Mathisen on Unsplash

Easter and Christmas make excellent times for a cross-country ski trip, and it’s at these times and on these excursions that you’ll find Norwegians at their cheeriest. 

Learn to love the great outdoors

Once the snow melts in Norway, there’ll be abundant opportunities to go camping, hiking, and fishing, sometimes all on the same trip. Even in the most densely packed areas of Oslo and Bergen, you are only 30 minutes away from excellent hiking trails, camping spots and breathtaking nature. 

Unfortunately, especially if you live on the rain-sodden west coast or in the cold, windy North, you will also need to learn to love the great outdoors when the weather isn’t on your side. Ut på tur aldri sur (out on a trip, never sour) is the expression that will sum this mentality up, and you can read about it here.

Learn to form an orderly, socially distanced queue even once the pandemic ends (unless it’s the ski lift) 

If you’ve only been in the country for a short while, then you probably think the queues you see at bus stops are due to social distancing. The truth is that Norwegians have been socially distancing the whole time. 

For the most part, Norway is an organised, efficient and polite society. This applies to queuing too, give at least a couple of meters when waiting for public transport.

You should at least leave a couple of metres between yourself and the next person in the queue, even once Covid-19 measures are lifted. Photo by Vidar Nordli-Mathisen on Unsplash

This doesn’t apply to the queues at the ski-lift, however, so don’t wait around and expect everyone to wait in an orderly fashion. Otherwise, you’ll get left behind or crushed by the stampede. 

Ditch cash (maybe even the card) and embrace contactless

Norway has been at the forefront of Scandinavian and European countries going contactless. 

In Scandinavia, more and more people are even ditching debit and credit cards and using mobile payment apps instead. A lot of shops and restaurants, especially in the bigger towns and cities will allow you to pay for things with Vipps nowadays.  

There is no doubt you will have heard of Vipps if you’ve been living in Norway for any amount of time at all, if not it’s the mobile payment app used by the vast majority of people here. 

A prime example of when you’ll feel like you’re a local using Vipps is when you are splitting a bill at a restaurant. Instead of making individual card payments suggest one person takes the bill, and everyone sends their share over Vipps. Just remember to actually to send your share.

Avoid small talk 

This one will have introverts rejoicing (on the inside, at least). In most places where English is the native language, small talk starts conversations and breaks up awkward silences. 

In Norway, however, small talk is a lot less common, and the locals can, for the most part, be a bit more reserved around people they aren’t familiar or friendly with. Another thing you may have picked up on is Norwegians like to talk at a distance rather than up close, so don’t take it personally if a Norwegian takes a step back mid-conversation. 

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NORWEGIAN HABITS

Shoes, sandwiches and small talk: The habits you pick up living in Norway 

Whether it's by a conscious effort to fit in or you catch yourself doing it instinctively one day, you'll pick up several Norwegian habits that'll govern what you wear, your social interactions and what you eat. 

Shoes, sandwiches and small talk: The habits you pick up living in Norway 

Sooner or later, your surroundings influence you, whether it’s your perception of things or how you behave or see yourself. 

However, you won’t have to start seeing yourself as a true Norwegian before you start inadvertently picking up a few Norwegian habits. 

You may have even begun to form some of these habits from day one after being clued in on some of the country’s social norms. Nevertheless, here are six Norwegian habits you will probably pick up living in Norway. 

Function over fashion 

This habit will be formed out of necessity and practicality. You will probably need to change up your wardrobe due to the weather in Norway- mild summers and freezing winters – and the emphasis on spending time outdoors and in nature. 

Learning how to layer and investing in wool will be two essential changes you’ll make to how you dress. If you live on Norway’s west coast (Bergen is considered one of the rainiest cities in the world), you’ll need to invest in a good raincoat too. 

Slippery pavements and streets in the winter will also likely tweak your choice of footwear during the colder months.

READ ALSO: Six tips on how to dress like a Norwegian

Shoes off 

On clothing, you’ll habitually take your shoes off whenever you enter someone’s home. This is especially important in Norway in the winter. Due to the snow and ice, you don’t want to leave your floors soaked after walking around with shoes on. 

Shoes with deep treads will also walk tiny bits of stone, grit and sand into the home. These little bits of debris can scratch up floors and ruin carpets in no time. 

Cutting down on small talk 

Many countries and cultures see chitchat as a form of politeness and a fun part of everyday life. However, in Norway, the opposite is true. Instead, saving the small talk and savouring the silence is seen as more polite. 

Norwegians emphasise respecting one another’s privacy, which is why many refrain from small talk or at least keep personal questions to a minimum, which is seen as respecting one’s privacy. 

For those from places where small talk is more common, this may make Norwegians seem cold and aloof. But it’s worth remembering that the locals refrain from small talk with good intentions. 

After some cultural adaptation, most will typically switch up their social routine to make small talk more appropriate (in the eyes of Norwegians) or take silence as golden.

READ ALSO: When can you talk to a stranger in Norway without annoying them?

Eating earlier 

This habit may not change immediately or for many years, but eventually, time (an earlier dinner time) will catch up with you. 

For most people, this happens when they have kids. This is because children in Norway are typically signed up for all kinds of clubs, events and activities in the evenings. This means getting in an early dinner before sending them off for their hobbies, classes, and training is preferable to feeding them at 8pm. 

Many people in Norway will finish work between 3pm and 5pm, making an early dinner fairly possible.

If it isn’t dinner at 5pm that you’ll pick up, your colleagues at work may rub off on you, and you’ll begin having ‘lunsj’ at 11am instead. 

Friluftsliv 

Translated to the outdoors life, is friluftsliv. This is a cornerstone of Norwegian culture. Everyone will figure out their way of getting outdoors and enjoying nature. 

This doesn’t mean massive cross-country ski trips, scrambling up and down mountains or throwing yourself down a slope on two planks of wood.

It could just mean a slow winding walk on a Sunday (Søndags tur), enjoying a hammock trip in the summer, or just generally getting out and about. 

Depending on how well you adapt ad adjust to Norway will depend on how you embrace the outdoor lifestyle when the weather is less than stellar. 

As Norwegians say, “there is no such thing as bad weather, just bad clothes).  

Sandwiches are a serious business (and other Norwegian cuisine habits) 

Not only will Norway change when you eat, but it will also influence what you eat. Norwegians enjoy a sandwich topped with their pålegg (topping or spread of choice). In fact, it can end up being three of their four daily meals if they opt for a kveldsmat (evening snack-sized meal). 

These are the lunch of choice of Norwegians up and down the country, and if you construct a sandwich which goes beyond what is typical (by Norwegian standards), you can expect to be subject to intense scrutiny. 

Other changes to your diet will include the adoption of texmex tacos and frozen pizzas to varying degrees and saving alcohol and sweets until the weekend. 

READ ALSO: Five Norwegian food mistakes you only make once

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