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LIVING IN NORWAY

Five tips to help you make more friends and combat loneliness in Norway

Norway has earned a reputation of a difficult place to settle and make friends over the years. The Local has put together a guide on essential resources to help you fight loneliness.

Pictured is a group of people running into the ocean.
Norway can be a hard country to settle. Here are some resources to fight loneliness. Pictured is a group of people running into the seaPhoto by Vidar Nordli-Mathisen on Unsplash .

Networking events and groups

Meeting new people can certainly feel daunting, and striking up a meaningful connection can be difficult, given the social rules of engagement in Norway.

People tend to be more reserved, and this is generally out of respect for your privacy than an unwillingness to be social.

Being in an environment that emphasises being social and meeting new people can help take the pressure off completely.

Norway’s big cities are home to plenty of networking groups where people can connect, and hopefully form friendships.

Timeleft is a platform that sets up dinners between strangers matched together using a personality algorithm. It has recently launched in Norway and is available in Oslo.

The service allows participants to choose who they would like to keep in contact with, and if the feeling is mutual, you will be able to message one another.

Other networking groups are also available. Unlock Norway hosts regular events looking to bring Norway’s international community together.

Mer av Oslo also runs regular events, such as food courses, where you can meet Oslo’s locals. However, these events will consist mainly of locals, so a lot of the conversation will likely be in Norwegian.

Foreign resident groups

A go-to for anyone new to Norway should be to join a social media group of other foreign residents. The group could be open to all foreign residents or just those from a specific country.

You can introduce yourself to these groups and explain a bit about your situation. Whether it’s a culture clash, feeling homesick, having trouble making friends, or problems connecting with your colleagues, other members in these groups can offer valuable and meaningful insights. They may also be in a similar situation and want to meet up to talk about it.

Being a member of a group of nationals from the same country as you may also help you retain a bit of personal identity so you don’t feel so lost living overseas.

Some of these groups may also schedule regular meetups where you can go along and be with other people – alternatively, you could take the initiative yourself.

Picking up a new hobby or getting back into an old interest

Learning something new with other people could help make you feel part of a wider group and allow you to make friends with people outside of the activity.

There are groups for pretty much everything in Norway, so all you need to do is look. Again, social media and your personal network can also help you find people with similar interests and point you toward where to pursue your hobbies.

Having the same mutual interest as someone makes it much easier to strike up a conversation.

Volunteering could be another solution, as spending your free time helping others can be rewarding in more ways than one.

Helping out could help you to establish friendships with others who may be in a similar situation.

Language courses and cafes

While pretty much everyone in Norway has a good grasp of English, you may not be able to feel fully settled until you’ve gotten comfortable with Norwegian.

Being unable to communicate in the local language can sometimes make it feel as if you don’t have a voice and may put you off trying to find activities and groups to socialise.

One overlooked benefit of language courses is the opportunity to meet other people. While online courses are cheaper and more flexible, it may be worth paying the extra money for an in-person course.

Should you want to hone your Norwegian skills outside of the course, then there are plenty of language cafes in Norway’s big cities.

One of the benefits of a språkkafe is the more informal setting—and the fact that there’s also a cultural exchange element, as people may be interested in the language you speak (if you speak a language other than English).

READ ALSO: Places to practice your Norwegian in Oslo

Accessing mental healthcare if you need it

Sometimes, loneliness can be a symptom of a larger problem, and getting out and meeting people may prove much easier said than done if you find yourself in a mental rut.

If you feel like loneliness is affecting your mental health or that your mental health is making you feel detached from others, then you may wish to access help.

In Norway, mental health help can be accessed both privately and through the state. GPs in Norway can offer treatment for mild or moderate health problems and refer you to a specialist. The GP will contact the mental health services in your area on your behalf.

Those with more acute problems can also access urgent mental healthcare.

READ MORE: How to access mental healthcare in Norway

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Are these Norway’s dullest and ugliest towns and cities?

There are many great places to live in Norway. However, some places have attracted a reputation, either warranted or perhaps unfairly, for not exactly impressing residents and visitors.

Are these Norway's dullest and ugliest towns and cities?

Given how safe Norway is as a country and how most places are close to stunning scenery, very few areas are bad places to live.

After all, what makes a place a good or bad place to live depends on a person’s situation—do they need to be close to work, good schools, and transport links? Do they want vibrant nightlife or something quieter?

Still, some places in Norway tend to attract the derision of visitors or receive jokes and insults from those living in other parts of the country. The Local has put together a list of the places most frequently mentioned when the topic of ugly towns or depressing cities comes up.

Feel free to leave your own suggestions below or make a case for why a city included doesn’t deserve its reputation, and at the end of the article, we’ll have a survey where you can share your experiences on the worst places you’ve lived or visited in Oslo. 

READ ALSO: The pros and cons of living in Norway

Drammen

The city of Drammen is around 30-40 minutes from Oslo. It was one of Norway’s most important maritime towns in the 18th century due to its lumber trade. It’s also home to Norway’s oldest brewery.

These days, the city is as famous for exporting the athletes Martin Ødegaard and Ole Einar Bjørndalen as it is for lumber.

Its industrial and maritime history means the city was designed with practicality rather than aesthetics in mind. It also meant that a few decades ago the river running through the city centre was incredibly polluted.

The city is typically a popular target for jokes on social media, so much so that the term “en dram i timen er bedre enn en time i Drammen” was coined. The play on the words with dram (a shot or drink) and Drammen roughly translates to “it’s better to take a shot every hour than spend an hour in Drammen”.

Still, plenty who actually do live in the city like it and disagree with the derision the town receives on social media and from out-of-towners.

Steinkjer

Located in Trøndaleg in central Norway and, much like the rest of the region, Steinkjer is home to stunning surroundings.

However, the town centre itself is often considered among the worst in Norway when it comes to debates over the ugliest place in Norway.

It certainly has its charms, but a rebuilding effort after the war meant buildings were erected with haste at the expense of looks.

The town planning is considered strange. While it’s fantastic that the city has a beach, it is next to a main road, and the scenery, which includes a petrol station, means it is unlikely to be mistaken for the Maldives anytime soon.

 
 
 
 
 
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One of the more notable buildings in the city is the church. It is characterised by its white boxy façade and the tall tower next to it. Still, the town is home to other sights, such as Norway’s geographical centre, petroglyphs, and a nearby church dating back to the 1100s.

Mo i Rana

Located in Nordland County in the north, Mo i Rana is in the Helgeland region of Norway. The Helgeland coast itself is home to plenty of stunning scenery and beautiful nature spots—which is just as well as the town centre leaves much to be desired.

Owing to its mining and construction roots, it should be no surprise that the city is home to the country’s largest industrial park.

Unfortunately, industrial parks don’t go hand in hand with picturesque cityscapes. As a result, the city has previously been named among the ugliest in Norway.

Pictured is Mo I Rana in Norway.

Pictured is a view of the industrial park in Mo i Rana. Photo by Gus Ruballo on Unsplash

Many towns and cities in northern Norway are derided for lacking personality and looks. When it comes to what Norwegians think, it’s often a toss-up between Mo i Rana and Alta for the dubious honour of the north’s ugliest city.

Førde

While the west of Norway is typically associated with charming villages and breathtaking natural landscapes, the city of Førde is widely considered to be the ugliest and most poorly thought-out in Norway.

Home to just 13,000 residents, Førde is the administrative capital of the Sunnfjord region. The beautiful nature surrounding the city isn’t enough to help it shine in a positive light.

Førde has been planned with cars in mind, which means the main settlement is surprisingly sparse for its small population. Parking for commuters has been prioritised over making the centre a pleasant place to be.

This means the town centre feels like a ghost town when shops close, as most locals live in the surrounding valleys.

The city’s reputation has endured despite measures taken by local authorities to densify the centre and improve its quality of life.

Sandvika

More strange than ugly or depressing is, Sandvika, located in Bærum. It can be considered a sort of “nothing place”. 

The city is home to plenty of commuters working in either Oslo or Drammen.

Unfortunately, most only know the town for the shopping centre, train station and roads in and out of Oslo. Given that many see the town as something to travel through, in or out of, rather than live in, doesn’t do the area’s reputation any favours. 

Still, the town is home to plenty of quaint nature spots. 

Pictured is Sandvika.

Sandvika is best known for a shopping centre, but is home to plenty of nice nature spots. Photo by Jakob Køhn on Unsplash

Have your say

Please take a couple of minutes to fill out our survey on the ugliest, dullest, or most depressing towns and cities you’ve visited in Norway.

We’ll try to include some of the best answers in a future article. Click here if the survey doesn’t appear below. 

 

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