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EXPLAINED: The etiquette around restaurant bills in Norway

If you have plans for dinner out in Norway, here's a look at the etiquette regarding the bill—from how to pay to whether you’ll be expected to split the bill and the tipping culture.

Pictured is a meal in a restaurant
Here's what you need to know about restaurant bills in Norway. Pictured is a meal in a restaurant Photo by Negley Stockman on Unsplash

Eating out in Norway is a rare treat for many, given that restaurants are typically more expensive than in other countries.

Hopefully, when you do get the chance to eat out, you’ll be treated to a great meal, and even better company. However, all good things must come to an end, and eventually, you’ll need to settle your bill and leave.

Ordering the bill

In many casual restaurants and cafes, you’ll normally pay at the counter when ordering or be asked to pay afterward. This is pretty straightforward, and we’d be worried if you couldn’t understand this concept.

One thing that can trip people up is whether to tip in these situations, as you have done most of the service aspect yourself. Many locals in Norway don’t tip when ordering and paying at a counter, and you shouldn’t feel obliged to do so unless you really want to – as Norway doesn’t have the same tipping culture as other countries.

In more formal settings, you will typically be offered the bill, after desert, cheeses, coffee, teas, aperitifs and refills have also been offered up.

You can also take the initiative and ask for the bill yourself. Restaurants often take a hands-off approach and try not to rush their guests after their meal.

Some busy and popular eateries may have reservations waiting to take over your table and offer you the bill. In some cases, restaurants may bring the bill to your table unprompted, although plenty in Norway don’t like this and say it makes them feel rushed.

When getting the waiter’s attention, many in Norway try to initiate eye contact first, and then the waiter should come over to your table once they notice.

If you are struggling to get your waiter’s attention, you could try a polite and subtle wave or you could try to gesture signing a check.

These two actions aren’t considered impolite, however snapping your fingers, waving around your credit card, whistling or loudly summoning the waiter are all considered rude.

Asking for the bill is fairly straightforward, and you could say something like “unnskyld, kan vi få regningen (excuse me, could we have the bill?)” to your waiter. If you don’t feel confident in Norwegian, then in all likelihood, English will probably be fine.

Paying the bill

Once the bill is dropped off at your table, you’ll normally be left alone for a couple of minutes rather than be offered the chance to pay right away. If you are in a hurry, you can head up to a counter with your bill or ask the waiter to pay right away.

The couple of minutes they leave you alone is normally to decide whether you’ll split the bill or leave a tip.

Splitting the bill is common in Norway—even when on dates. Therefore, most people will normally assume the bill will be split unless you make it clear it’s your treat.

Even if you split, it might be common for one person to pay the whole bill while the other sends their share via the mobile pay service Vipps.

Tips

As for tips, The Local has written more in-depth about this topic. But, the short answer is that its not expected, and that its appreciated if you do choose to tip. When tipping 10 percent is considered generous, while 20 percent is considered extremely generous.

Some restaurants may automatically add a service charge, in these instances you won’t be expected to add an extra tip.

READ ALSO: Does Norway have a tipping culture?

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EXPLAINED: Why so many Norwegians have two surnames

Most Norwegians you will meet will have two surnames, with this tradition dating back hundreds of years. Over time, the reason why Norwegians have two surnames has changed to keep up with the times.

EXPLAINED: Why so many Norwegians have two surnames

In Norway, as in most countries worldwide, the naming system is a blend of tradition and modernity.

READ MORE: What are locals in Norway’s different regions called?

However, unlike many Western countries, where inherited family names have long been the norm, Norway’s approach to surnames has somewhat unusual roots.

The traditional three-part naming system

Historically, most Norwegians were farmers and did not use inherited family names, according to the Norwegian Interest Group for DNA in Genealogy (NIDNA), a non-profit organisation that promotes DNA as a source and method in genealogical research.

Instead, they followed a three-part naming system.

The first name was the given name of the person.

The second part, known as the patronymic, indicates the father’s first name, such as Sigurdsdatter, meaning “daughter of Sigurd,” or Nilsen, meaning “son of Nils.”

The third part of the name referred to the farm where the person was born or lived. This farm name served as a form of address and would change if the person moved to a different farm.

In this traditional system, neither the patronymic nor the farm name were inherited family names.

What changed between the 19th and 20th centuries?

A whole lot.

Before 1850, most Norwegians adhered to the traditional naming system outlined above.

However, between the mid-19th century and the early 1920s, there was a gradual shift towards using inherited surnames, especially in urban areas.

This change was formalised with the Norwegian Names Act of 1923, which required everyone to have a surname, as the The Genealogy Society of Norway – the largest of its kind in Norway – writes on its website.

Typically, Norwegians in cities chose patronymics as their surnames, while families from rural areas often opted for their farm names.

Norwegian surnames today

Just several generations ago, names often changed when people moved.

A person might have a patronymic and a farm name, such as Jon Persson Haugen, which would change to Jon Persson Skaar if he moved from the Haugen farm to the Skaar farm.

This practice was relatively common until the turn of the 20th century, when fixed European-style surnames became mandatory, mainly for census purposes but also due to streamlined tax and hospital payments, as name expert and researcher Ivar Utne told ung.forskning.no in a recent interview.

A few years back, around 70 percent of Norwegian surnames were derived from farm names, such as Ås, Li, and Hagen, while around 30 percent are solidified patronymics, like Olsen, Larsen, Hansen, and Johansen, according to the NIDNA.

As of 2018, Hansen, Johansen, and Olsen remained the three most common surnames in Norway, with about 150,000 people bearing these names. However, as more Norwegians choose unique surnames, the traditional practice of using a father’s first name as a surname – a patronymic – is gradually fading.

Figures from national data agency Statistics Norway (SSB) reveal a long-term decline in the prevalence of surnames ending in -sen.

A 2021 SSB report highlighted this trend, noting that the proportion of such surnames in the population had dropped to 19.6 percent. 

The rise of two surnames

According to the Norwegian Names Act (Navneloven), every person is required to have a first name and either a single or double surname, with the option to include a middle name as well.

In recent decades, it has become increasingly common for Norwegians to use two surnames, reflecting both the mother’s and the father’s surnames.

This trend aligns with broader societal changes in the country, where married couples often retain their birth surnames.

In Norway, a middle name is usually a surname, not an additional given name.

For instance, if a child’s legal name is Kristian Olaf Rutten Carlsen, “Rutten” could be the middle name, and “Carlsen” the surname.

First names are given names, like Ivar or Sven Kristian.

Wondering why some child names are banned in Norway? Make sure to read our explainer on the topic.

You can find last year’s overview of the most popular baby names in Norway here.

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